Category Archives: Personal Growth

No More Selling Myself Short

A few weeks ago, I was catching up with a dear friend who I hadn’t seen in awhile. A few months ago, I cooked a three-course vegan dinner for her, my boyfriend, and a few other people I really treasure having in my life. My friend turned to her friend...
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Are You Fed Up Yet?

No more niceties. Now, I’m usually a pretty even-tempered, easygoing guy. Heck, I’ve billed myself as “The Thoughtful Gay Man”. Even though I try to approach most of my life with gentleness, graciousness, and a level of cool-headed playfulness, when it comes to changing habits, it’s another story. Way less...
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What If Motivation Never Shows Up?

Oh, motivation. Where art thou? This ‘m’ word is central and found so often both in and outside of the personal growth world. And I hear it again and again when people are trying to move toward a particular goal. “But I’m not motivated. I don’t feel motivated.” Those are the...
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How Indecision Is Making You Miserable

Decisions, decisions. We make thousands of them every single day. You even decided whether or not this article was worth reading. If there’s one common trait I see in people who call themselves “stuck”, it’s that they have stayed in the realm of indecision for too long. Decisions are so...
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